On my third day in Copenhagen I wrote a letter to myself:
I want to explore outside of Copenhagen with my bike, name my bike, and produce something I’m proud of. I want to learn how to cook and say yes to every plan and eat dessert whenever possible.
There were lots of “I hope to”s and “I can’t wait for”s, and I just in case I had forgotten my own handwriting I signed the letter “from Finley.” Everyone in my housing community was required to write these on the third day of orientation, after which our orientation leaders collected them and promised to send them back to us half way through the semester. Hearing this only seventy-two hours into my Copenhagen adventure, Half way through sounded a lot like a far-off myth that would never actually be realized. But when I came into my apartment three days ago, there was my letter, sitting on the table in the kitchen like a bright red sign screaming “hello! You’ve been here eight weeks already!”
Needless to say, I wasn’t ready.
I finally summed up the courage to tear open the seal yesterday, only to be surprised how much my mindset has changed since August. My original goals for the semester felt distant but more important than ever, and, perhaps more pressing, the fact that I have been in Copenhagen for eight weeks means that I only have eight weeks LEFT. To avoid wild panic and make the most of my time here, I decided to revisit the reflection platform: what am I proud of so far, what am I most grateful for, and what do I wish I had done differently. Check out my conclusions below (with pictures)!
What I’m proud of:
1 Keeping a journal

Self care looks different on everyone; for me it looks like a Thursday afternoon, huddled in a coffee shop, writing in my journal with my green pen and reflecting on the past few days. Eight weeks in I have managed to record every day- all 85 pages of my journal are filled, and I’m already moving on a second book. The daily commitment was challenging but the reward is significant.
2 Buying the flight

It was stressful for me to take the plunge and buy plane tickets (especially when the semester really started to amp up!), but I’m so glad I did it! My flatmates and I travelled to Berlin on a whim during our the second weekend in Denmark, and while I hate the words “spontaneous” and “airplanes” together, it proved to be one of the most fun weekends. So just do it! Buy the flight, don’t check a bag, and always bring a camera.
3 Taking advantage of the study tours

“Don’t you go to a fake school!?” My Danish flatmate asked me after I said I had had a long week. Technically, yes, DIS is not affiliated with a university in Copenhagen, but it is so much more than that. My classes are well-rounded and extend far beyond the bounds of the classroom; take our visit to Aller, one of the most successful Danish publishing companies, during our Core Course week for example. Here, we explored the past, present, and future of the publishing industry, and upon leaving I felt so inspired by Aller that I designed a thesis for my home university around these ideas. DIS has so much to offer the dedicated academic if you just keep your mind open.
What I’m most grateful for:
1 Coffee time

I think I may have single-handedly fueled the Danish coffee industry in September. Coffee brings me so much joy but has slowly drained my bank account… eventually the only way I would allow myself to buy coffee was if I held off on buying wine later in the week. But sacrifices must be made to save the things we love! And I really, really love Copenhagen cappuccinos (with oat milk please).
2 Nimbusparken 32

I seriously lucked out in the housing department. Every member of Nimbus 32 has a special place in my heart, especially on Monday night when we all get together to clean the apartment and make dinner together. It is hygge to the max!
3 Dorte

Dorte is my wonderful core course professor who (we’re pretty sure) also doubles as an undercover superhero. She the inspiring, radiant, fascinating mascot of my time at DIS and I am so grateful for how much I have learned from her (both in the classroom and as a superhero).
What I wish I had done differently
1 Set a budget

Copenhagen is astronomically expensive for a JV money-saver like myself, and it took me until well into September to develop context for my spending habits. The whole idea of managing an entire semester’s financial plan made me nervous, but I can assure you that the answer is not to ignore it until it goes away (which was my original intent). I recommend downloading some budgeting apps (I’m using “TrabeePocket”) and just planning ahead.
2 Resisted the routine

I was so eager to insert myself into a familiar Danish routine, but after a few weeks I realized I was a little too set in my ways. There is certainly something to be said about finding your favorite coffee shop and familiar route, but it wasn’t until my friends came to visit (pictured above) that I noticed how much of Copenhagen I still have to explore! Next time I’m going to take the long way home.
3 Packed less clothes

I can’t believe I’m saying this after I was so proud of my packing skills but… I wish I had packed less. I brought so many sweaters and way too many shoes for warm weather, and I realized too late that I want my style to be more Danish. I don’t have the room or the funds, but in retrospect I should have packed less, saved money on the overweight baggage, and embraced the Copenhagen street-style scene.































































































